When faced with a difficult relationship or a difficult situation in a relationship, we are almost always ungrateful towards the other. On the contrary, we blame the other person for our problems with them, and that means we are not grateful. Sin will never improve your relationship or your life. The more you blame, the worse the relationship will be and the worse your life will be.
If you have negative feelings towards the other person, both in the present and in the past, gratitude will eliminate those feelings. Why do you want to get rid of your negative feelings towards another person?
"Resisting anger is like taking hot coals and throwing them at someone else; you're on fire."
Gautama Buddha (about 563 BC - 483 BC)
Founder of Buddhism
Bad feelings towards others will burn your life, but gratitude will take them!
For example, if you have an ex partner who is connected to you through your kids and your relationship isn't going well, look at your kids' faces and understand that if you didn't have an ex boyfriend, they wouldn't survive. company. The life of your children is one of the most precious gifts for you. Take care of your children and thank your ex spouse every day for their life! Not only do you bring peace and harmony into your relationship, but you also teach your children the most important tool in their life - gratitude.
Or, if you are heartbroken or sad at the end of a relationship, you can use the magical power of gratitude to change your grief. Gratitude magically transforms mental pain into healing and happiness faster than anything else, and my parenting story is a perfect example of this.
My mother and father fell in love at first sight. They have been very grateful to be together from the moment they met and had the most beautiful wedding they have ever seen.
My mother was shocked when my father died. After months of suffering, he began to use the magical power of gratitude and, despite his pain and anguish, he sought something to be grateful for in the future. He found them one by one. He always found or remembered something he wanted to do, but he didn't have time to do it while my father was alive. And with this bold step of gratitude, she had the opportunity to magically fulfill her dream and her life was enriched with happiness again. The magical power of gratitude gave my mother a new life.
For today's magical experience, you will seek hot coals to burn your life and gratefully turn it into gold! Choose a difficult, problematic, or broken attitude that you want to correct. It doesn't matter if the person is in your life or in a past relationship and that person is no longer in your life.
Sit down and make a written list of ten things you are grateful for to the person you choose. Think about the history of the relationship and list the good things about this person or the great things you have learned from the relationship. The easiest way to do this is to remember how it all went before the relationship deteriorated or ended. If the relationship is never good, think carefully about the person's good qualities, because they are there.
This magical experience does not depend on who is right or wrong. No matter who does what to you, no matter what someone says or does, you can magically heal a relationship and you don't need another person to heal it.
There is gold in every relationship, even the most difficult, and you need to find gold to enrich all of your relationships and your life. When you dig up an ingot, write it down, address the person by name and say thank you:
What name am I grateful for? .
1. Paul, thank you for the time we have spent together. I've learned a lot since our marriage ended, I'm smarter today, and I'm applying what I've learned from our marriage to many of our relationships today.
2. Paul, I am grateful for what they have done to bring about our marriage, because it means that you have tried for ten years of marriage.
3. Paolo, thank you for our children. The joy I receive from you every day cannot be without you.
4. Paul, thank you for your hard work and supporting our family for so many hours while I was taking care of our children at home. Thank you so much for making us all dependent on you.
5. Paul, thank you for the precious moments we have spent with our growing children. It was the first time I saw our children talking and walking, and I know you haven't had such an opportunity.
6. Paul, thank you for your support as I experience my difficult times of pain or loss.
7. Paul, thank you for being sick and you have done your best to take care of me and my children.
8. Paul, thank you for the good time we have spent and the money we have earned.
9. Paolo, thank you for wanting to be the father of our children.
10. Paul, thank you for your support and the time you want to devote to our children. I know they mean as much to you as to me.
When you complete your 10-point thank you list, you should feel better about yourself and your relationship. The last point to pay attention to is that you no longer have bad feelings towards this person, because your life suffers from these feelings. Each attitude is different and, if necessary, you can repeat this magical experience for a few days until you get to a place where you don't feel bad for the person.
By using the magical power of gratitude to enhance an existing relationship, you will see that the relationship will miraculously begin to change before your eyes. Not only does gratitude need to magically change relationships, but a person using the benefits of gratitude throughout their life.
If you choose a past relationship with which you no longer communicate, you will feel peace and happiness and at the same time you will see that other current relationships in your life are magically developing.
If the relationship becomes difficult in the future, be sure to use this magical experience immediately. You will end the problems before they grow up and increase the magic of the relationship instead!
Magic Practice No. 15
The witch heals your relationship
1. Count Your Blessings: Make a list of ten blessings. Write because you are grateful. Review your list and say thank you, thank you, thank you at the end of each blessing and be grateful for that blessing as much as possible .
2. Choose a difficult, problematic, or broken attitude that you want to correct .
3. Sit down and make a list of ten things for which you are grateful to the person you choose. Enter it in the following ways:
last name Why am I grateful? .
4. Before going to bed tonight, hold a magic stone in one hand and say "thank you" for the best thing that happened during the day.
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